Why Women Become Uncoachable
The hidden obstacles that hold women back from their own success
"I know what to do, so why can’t I stop procrastinating and just do it?"
"Why am I making such a big deal out of it?"
"It’s not personal, it's just business, I know that … logically but …."
"Why can’t I just forget about it and let it go?"
The “traditional” approach to achieving a goal is
DO the work, then you get to
HAVE the “thing” (achieve the goal, reach the outcome, get the result), then you can
It’s measurable, it’s quantifiable
Most men love this approach, and there are some women that thrive this way as well.
But the majority of women fail at this way of doing things ... if that approach worked, why is it that so many of your female clients are not taking the actions they know to take, despite all the mindset work they’ve done?
Women need a different approach
Women possess a unique capacity for passion and emotional depth, enabling us to love with great intensity and wholeheartedly support those we care about.
Though some may deny it, our innate ability to nurture and empathise lies at the very core of our being.
Within our core is also where the doubts, fears and insecurities lie
It’s where the sabotaging programs and beliefs live that have come from our experiences, memories and epigenetics that keep us stuck in the patterns and behaviours we so desperately want to break.
Some women are able to push through and
“feel the fear and do it anyway”
... but for the majority of women
that notion may be effective in the short-term, but long-term it causes more harm than good, amplifying their fears, increasing their stress levels, and when they don’t take the actions, adds another item to the list of things they’ve failed at and reinforces their feelings of inadequacy.
Women need to BE (happy, confident, content) FIRST
We’re more motivated by how we feel and how we make others feel.
It's like we need a "heart" reset
to be free of all the self-doubt first and then the “doing” becomes easy and almost effortless.
Like attracts like and because we emotionalise so much, we’re very strong “attraction magnets”.
Resetting our hearts means we change the energy we’re sending out which changes the energy we’re attracting.
Our actions are more inspired and, by default, we get to have all the things that we want.
Because of our biological differences, the language we use, epigenetics, our hormones, how we process stress, and how we perceive the world, we need a process that will heal our hearts in a deep, thorough way
If your female clients still doubt themselves, still lack confidence and self belief...
If they still feel unworthy or undeserving of all that is good in life
despite the mindset work you’ve done with them
it's the process, tool or modality you’re using is what’s failing, NOT them and definitely not you
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